Aug 25, 2022What Leaders Can Learn from Eleven & Stranger ThingsIn the most recent season of the sci-fi, coming of age drama, Stranger Things — somewhere between the Kate Bush anthem and excessive Tab drinking — Papa, the father figure to heroine, Eleven, compels her to explore the fear holding her back from saving civilization. …Stranger Things5 min readStranger Things5 min read
Jan 12, 2022A Case for Talking to the Universe this New YearWhen I started my coaching practice, I heard Helen Reddy’s I am Woman playing as the soundtrack to my days. I’d made the leap, honored my value of independence, and, as the singer-songwriter preached, felt strong and invincible. Go me! About six-months in, though, Roy Orbison kicked Reddy to the…Leadership Development5 min readLeadership Development5 min read
Sep 7, 2021What if Losing Your ‘Edge’ Could Save Your Soul?Over a dozen years ago, I joined an organization to lead people and culture development. I relish in a good life map exercise to uncover colleagues’ trials and triumphs, so I saw the first all-staff meeting as fertile soil to plant seeds for interpersonal connection. …Leadership5 min readLeadership5 min read
Mar 29, 2021You are Going to Die. So How do you Want to Live?I’ve always been drawn to the deep and profound; death, in particular, fascinates me. I’m a BJ Miller groupie, devoured When Breath Becomes Air, and count Terrible, Thanks for Asking among my favorite podcasts. The fragility of life means I often ruminate on how trauma will manifest in my children…Death5 min readDeath5 min read
Aug 5, 2020Want to Stop Making Impulsive Decisions in Uncertainty? Here’s How.When the pandemic struck, I figured I was a goner. While I knew Clorox and Peloton could thrive in our altered reality, I didn’t see my business surviving. Undoubtedly the need for leadership coaching was amplified, but could the cost of it be justified with skyrocketing unemployment? ‘Not so much,’…Leadership Development5 min readLeadership Development5 min read
Jul 13, 2020You Won’t Make It Worse. You Might Even Make it Better. So, Do It.In my 20’s, a childhood friend’s sister, Lucy*, died unexpectedly while traveling the globe during her gap year. While I’d lost communication with my friend and her family years before, my memories of eating lunch in their London townhouse and tea and biscuits in their sweet garden hadn’t faded. And…Pain5 min readPain5 min read
Apr 21, 2020What a 1,000 Piece Puzzle Taught Me About Navigating UncertaintyOn Saturday night, we finished a 1,000 piece puzzle. Pre COVID-19, listening to jazz and staying up ’til 10:30pm with my husband and 10-year old to finish a gratifying but arduous endeavor would have been unthinkable. Quality television in the vein of The Handmaid’s Tale would have beckoned. …Uncertainty5 min readUncertainty5 min read
Mar 30, 2020A Silver Lining to COVID-19: An End to PretendingOn Friday, March 13, our district announced school closures, starting the upcoming Monday, due to the increased risk of coronavirus. So, I spent the weekend noting recommendations on Instagram for the Epic app and Khan Academy and surveying sample daily homeschool schedules from friends. I tailored our schedule for my…Coronavirus6 min readCoronavirus6 min read
Mar 10, 2020When Our Identity Holds Us Hostage (and How to Break Free!)At 12-years-old, I made an SAT study calendar for my then 17-year-old sister: memorize vocab words in the morning, grapple with practice problems at night. I couldn’t comprehend her resistance to focus and responsibility so figured I’d intervene and show her the light. In shocking news, she didn’t comply. …Identity5 min readIdentity5 min read
Oct 2, 2019Cleaning Our Closets & Purging Our PainOur hallway coat closet is always at least two inches ajar. …Short Story5 min readShort Story5 min read